When most people think of a Christian charity organization, they picture selfless saints who have devoted their lives to the service of others; laboring humbly in the work of God. And while this is true to some extent, the members of these organizations are still flawed mortals that have quirks, pet peeves, and personalities that sometimes clash with others; maybe you know by experience.
So, what do you do when you find yourself co-laboring in an administrative position with someone who, quite frankly, just gets on your nerves? Here are a few tips that may help alleviate mounted tension between you and your fellow.
Keep Your Eyes On The Goal. It may be easy to get caught up in drama and to lose sight of why you chose to serve in the first place. But at the end of your life, it won't matter if you can say, I sure showed ________ who the real brains were; me! What will matter is that you'll be able to say, I brought glory to You here on earth by completing the work You gave me to do (Jn. 17:4).
Pursue Peace With All (Heb. 12:14). The word pursue implies following intently even when it's trying to get away from you. If you see that peace is somehow deserting your relationship, recognize it and take action.
Give Gifts for Good Measure. It doesn't have to be anything big, and it doesn't even have to be a tangible object. It might be surprising them by doing one of the menial tasks that they're responsible for, but hate doing. It could mean buying them lunch some day. Simply showing that you care (even if you have trouble doing so!) may transform your relationship and lift some of the stress in their life that makes them, well ...a grouch! Give and it will be given to you; good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over shall men pour into your lap (Lk. 6:38).
Be Quick To Forgive. Holding on to offenses is a weight that hinders you as well as the offender. Offering forgiveness, even without being asked, is a very significant step in forming a peaceful relationship. Approach the topic with sensitivity, because there is always the possibility that the offender didn't even realize that they hurt you. We all get busy and inconsiderate from time to time (some of us more than others), and whatever the issue was, may have been a misunderstanding. Even if it was not, however, Make allowance for each other's faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others (Col. 3:13).
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